top of page

Moments of Change: The Unfolding

When you say "yes" to Jesus, He begins a gentle work of transformation in your heart, changing you from the inside out in ways both small and profound.

You Are Being Changed

When you encounter Jesus and choose to follow Him, something begins to shift inside you. These changes aren't always immediate, and they don't look the same for everyone, but they are real. You might notice them in quiet moments, or friends and family might point out that something about you is different.

These transformations aren't things you force or manufacture. They're the natural result of walking with Christ. 

 

Below are some of the changes that many new believers experience as they journey with Jesus. You may recognise some of these in your own life already, while others may come in time. Each person's path is unique, but these moments of change are markers of a life being transformed by God's presence.

A Sense of Peace You've Never Known

Many who encounter Jesus describe feeling a deep calm settle over them, even when their circumstances remain difficult. This isn't about having an easier life, but rather an inner stillness that holds steady through the storms.

 

Where anxiety once dominated your thoughts, you might find yourself breathing more easily, sleeping better, and feeling less controlled by worry about tomorrow. This peace doesn't make sense to those who haven't experienced it, but for those who have, it becomes an anchor.

 

"Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled; do not be afraid." 

John 14:27

 
Freedom from Guilt and Shame

Perhaps one of the most profound changes is the lifting of guilt that many carry for years. Things you've done in your past, mistakes you thought would define you forever, suddenly lose their power over you.

 

This doesn't mean you forget what happened or that consequences disappear, but the weight of shame begins to lift. You might find yourself able to look in the mirror differently, to accept forgiveness you never thought you deserved.

 

"Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus." 

Romans 8:1 

Image by Jerry Zhang

Transformation Occurs

Perhaps your journey to Jesus wasn’t marked by a single dramatic moment. Maybe it was more like a thread being gently pulled through the fabric of your life; small encounters that seemed insignificant at first, but together formed an undeniable pattern.

Unexpected Joy in Ordinary Moments

Joy is different from happiness. It can coexist with sadness, with challenges, even with grief. New believers often report finding delight in simple things they overlooked before.

 

A sunrise feels like a gift. Time with family becomes precious. Even difficult days contain moments of inexplicable lightness. This joy isn't forced or manufactured; it bubbles up from somewhere deeper than your circumstances.

 

"You have made known to me the path of life; You will fill me with joy in Your presence, with eternal pleasures at Your right hand." 

Psalm 16:11 

 
Changed Relationships and Healing

When Jesus enters your life, your relationships often shift. You might find yourself wanting to reconcile with people you've been estranged from, or having the strength to set healthy boundaries where there were none.

 

Family members may notice you're different, more patient, quicker to forgive. Old resentments that once felt immovable begin to soften. You see people through new eyes, with more compassion and less judgement.

 

"Bear with one another and forgive any complaint you may have against someone else. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." 

Colossians 3:13 

The Dream, the Vision, the Supernatural

Breaking Free from What Held You Captive

Many believers describe finding freedom from things that once controlled them. This could be addiction to substances, destructive patterns in relationships, consuming anger, or habitual dishonesty.

 

The grip of these things loosens, sometimes dramatically and sometimes gradually. You discover you have choices you didn't think you had before. What once felt impossible to change becomes possible, even if the journey isn't instant.

 

"So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed." 

John 8:36 

 
A New Understanding of Love

Love takes on dimensions you may not have experienced before. You begin understanding what it means to be loved unconditionally, which changes how you love others.

 

Your capacity for forgiveness expands. You find yourself caring about people you would have dismissed before, or having patience with difficult people that surprises even you. This kind of love isn't emotional or romantic; it's steadier and deeper.

 

"We love because He first loved us." 

1 John 4:19

Image by Kanae Kanesaki

You Are Changing

Following Jesus means becoming someone new, not all at once, but through countless moments where His presence reshapes your heart, your mind, and your life

Courage to Face Your Fears

Fear loses some of its power. Whether it's fear of death, fear of rejection, fear of failure, or fear of the unknown, many believers find these fears becoming smaller.

 

This doesn't mean becoming fearless, but rather finding courage you didn't have before. You might take risks you would have avoided, speak truth you would have hidden, or face situations you would have run from.

 

"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."

2 Timothy 1:7 

 
A Sense of Purpose and Direction

Where life once felt aimless or meaningless, many new believers describe discovering purpose. This isn't necessarily about having a grand mission, but rather a sense that your life matters, that you're here for a reason.

 

Daily activities take on new meaning. You begin seeing how you can make a difference right where you are, in small ways and large ways. Your priorities shift as you discover what truly matters.

 

"For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance as our way of life." 

Ephesians 2:10 

 
Changed Desires and Values

Things that once seemed important may fade, while things you overlooked become precious. Your desire for material possessions might decrease while your desire for genuine connection increases.

 

Entertainment that once absorbed your time may lose its appeal. What you value, what you pursue, what you think about, all these can transform without you even trying to force the change.

 

"Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what is the good, pleasing, and perfect will of God." 

Romans 12:2

Transformation Unfolds

Experiencing God's Presence

Perhaps most mysteriously, many describe an awareness of God that's hard to put into words. You might sense Him speaking to you through Scripture, through circumstances, through that quiet inner voice.

Prayer becomes a conversation rather than religious ritual. You notice answers to prayers, sometimes in ways you didn't expect. There's a sense of not being alone anymore, even in your most private moments.

 

"Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you." 

James 4:8 

 
Growing Patience with Yourself and Others

Where you once demanded immediate results or perfection, patience begins developing. You extend grace to yourself when you stumble. You give others room to be human and imperfect.

This patience isn't passive; it's an active choice to trust the process of growth rather than demanding instant transformation.

 

"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."

Galatians 5:22-23 

 
A Different Relationship with Suffering

Your suffering doesn't necessarily decrease, but your ability to find meaning in it changes. Hardships that once seemed pointless begin to shape you in ways you can recognise.

You develop resilience you didn't have before. Some believers even describe being able to comfort others going through similar struggles because of what they've learned through their own pain.

 

"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God." 

2 Corinthians 1:3-4 

 
Freedom from Needing Others' Approval

The exhausting need to please everyone or maintain a certain image begins to fade. When you understand you're loved by God as you are, the opinions of others matter less.

This doesn't mean becoming arrogant or uncaring, but rather finding security that isn't dependent on others' validation. You become more authentic, more willing to be yourself.

 

"Am I now seeking the approval of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ." 

Galatians 1:10 

 
New Wisdom and Discernment

Many believers describe developing better judgement about situations and people. You might find yourself making wiser decisions, seeing through deception more clearly, or understanding complex situations with surprising clarity.

This wisdom often comes through studying Scripture combined with the Holy Spirit's guidance, giving you insight beyond your natural understanding.

 

"If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him." 

James 1:5 

 

Hope for the Future

Even when the present is difficult, hope takes root. This isn't naive optimism that ignores reality, but rather a confident expectation that God is working and that your story isn't over.

Tomorrow becomes something to move towards rather than something to dread. This hope sustains you through seasons that would have crushed you before.

 

"Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you believe in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." 

Romans 15:13 

Image by Manjunath Kammar

A New Creation

Scripture speaks of believers becoming "a new creation" in Christ, and this is more than just religious language...

All These Changes Have a Name

Every transformation you've read about above, every shift in your heart and mind, every moment where you notice you're different than you were before, these aren't random occurrences. They're evidence of something profound that Scripture describes with specific language.

 

When the Bible speaks of becoming "a new creation" in Christ, it's pointing to the very changes you're experiencing and the deeper reality behind them.

 

The Real You Is Emerging

Scripture speaks of believers becoming "a new creation" in Christ, and this is more than just religious language. It describes a fundamental shift in who you are at your core.

 

You remain yourself, with your personality, your memories, your unique traits, but something essential has changed. It's like being the same person yet somehow different, as if layers of old identity are being peeled away to reveal who you were always meant to be.

 

"Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away. Behold, the new has come!" 

2 Corinthians 5:17

 
Not Perfect, Just Pointed in a New Direction

This newness isn't about perfection or suddenly having everything together. You'll still make mistakes, still struggle, still have difficult days. But there's a change in trajectory, a change in what's happening inside you.

 

Where you once moved through life guided by fear, pride, or survival, you now have a new compass pointing you towards love, truth, and God's purposes.

 

The False Self Falls Away

Many new believers describe this as feeling like they're finally becoming themselves for the first time. The false selves you constructed to protect yourself or impress others begin to fall away.

 

You discover gifts and strengths you didn't know you had. You find courage to be authentic in ways you couldn't before. The pretence becomes exhausting because you've tasted what it's like to be genuinely known and genuinely loved.

 

Your Past No Longer Writes Your Future

Being a new creation also means your past doesn't define your future. The old patterns, the old labels, the old limitations no longer have the final word. You're not bound by who you were or what was done to you.

 

God is writing a new story, and you get to participate in its unfolding. This doesn't erase your history, but it does change what that history means and where it leads.

 

"Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth. Do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the desert." 

Isaiah 43:18-19 

 
Changed in a Moment, Transformed Over Time

This transformation happens both instantly and gradually. The moment you choose Christ, something profound shifts in the spiritual realm. But the outworking of that change takes time, patience, and God's continued work in your life.

You're being remade, reformed, renewed, day by day, moment by moment, into the person God always intended you to be.

 

"And we all, who with unveiled faces reflect the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into His image with intensifying glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit." 

2 Corinthians 3:18 

Who Is Making These Changes?

As you experience these transformations and recognise yourself becoming new, a beautiful truth emerges: you're not changing on your own. These shifts in your heart, these moments of growth, this unfolding of who you're meant to be, they're all the work of God in your life.

 

But God doesn't remain distant or abstract. He reveals Himself in three persons: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Each one encounters you personally, intimately, and distinctly.

 

Understanding how you meet the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit isn't just theology to study, it's about recognising who is walking with you, speaking to you, and transforming you every day. Your relationship with God is not one-dimensional. You encounter Him in three beautiful, interconnected ways, and each encounter brings its own gifts, its own comfort, and its own revelation of His love.

 

Let's explore how you might experience each person of the Trinity in your journey with Christ.

You're Not Alone

This journey won't always be easy. You'll have questions. You'll face doubts. You might even face opposition from people who don't understand your decision.

This journey won't always be easy. You'll have questions. You'll face doubts. You might even face opposition from people who don't understand your decision.

 

"For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor principalities, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord." 

Romans 8:38-39

 

 

These encounters with the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit are not fleeting moments that disappear when life gets hard. They are the beginning of a relationship that cannot be broken. As you continue to experience God's presence and witness the changes He brings to your life, remember this promise: nothing can separate you from His love.

You are held, you are known, and you are His.

Scripture quotations are from the Berean Bible (www.bereanbible.com), Copyright © 2016, 2020 by Bible Hub. All rights reserved worldwide.Used by permission under the Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike 4.0 International License (CC BY-SA 4.0).

You Are Known and Held

bottom of page